If you have been following my blog, you would know that I am a “seasoned home mover“. I have been moving home almost every two years for the past eight years. You would also have read about my crazy outlet shopping trips when I was in the US for conferences as the stuff at the US outlets are easily 30% cheaper compared to buying in Singapore. I ended up buying lots of stuff that I do not need nor use.
Every home moved, I spent time organising, giving away some of my stuff and bought stackable plastic boxes to store the rest of my stuff. I am so good at storing stuff that I forgot what I have in storage and bought the same stuff again when I need to use them.
All the organising I did in that eight years was just a temporary solution. I kept decluttering and organising and also bought more. This organising finally stopped when I came across the KonMari method. I did a tidying marathon and was liberated from my clutter. So what is wrong with organising?
Organising is keeping stuff that we rarely use. Organising is keeping our stuff on shelves or cupboards. Organising is purchasing storage boxes to store our stuff in our store room or rent a storage space to store them or move to a bigger apartment that we may store stuff that we do not need nor use. Resulting in spending more time and money in stuff that we have no use of.
Organising is a temporary measure, as the problem of lack of space to store our stuff will not go away as long as we continue to buy more stuff. If we need to find additional storage space or buy storage boxes to store our stuff, it simply means that we have too much stuff that we do not need nor use. We should consider giving or selling them away, give our stuff a new lease of life by giving to others who need or use them more than we do.
Start your tidying marathon by category. Remove everything of one category from the shelf, cabinet and store room and place them on the floor. Pick and keep items that spark joy and serve a purpose.
Discard everything and pick what to keep. Every item that we keep should bring joy and serve a purpose. The rest of the stuff that we discard, we could either give them to family and friends, charity or sell them online. Remove the stuff that distracts us from living our life. Have three different bags ready, sort by what to sell, give or trash.
Do not hide, keep things openly. Put everything in the open that you will use them.
Target to finish the tidying marathon within a certain number of days. Stay focus. After completing one category, start the next category. Tidying by category provides us with a full view of what we have by category. I took two full days to complete my tidying marathon and feel liberated. I consider myself very efficient as I was rather ruthless in discarding my stuff. Others may take four to seven days depending if they are tidying their own stuff or for the family.
I used to organise and declutter every three to six months. Since my last tidying marathon in December 2016, I have not spent time organising nor decluttering as everything that I have are stuff that I use regularly.
Always remind ourselves the reason for tidying and reducing our possessions is so we have time and resources to focus and do what matters to us.
Happy tidying and discarding. You may get some money back just like me.
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